Finding Your Satisfaction: A Guide to Finding the Best Clitoral Vibrator for You

Finding Your Satisfaction: A Guide to Finding the Best Clitoral Vibrator for You

Likely by now, you’re fully aware of the bizarre times we’re currently living in. With COVID-19, or the Coronavirus, now a global pandemic, most of the world has been asked to self-isolate or quarantine to help flatten the curve and allow the hardworking frontline workers to treat those who are showing symptoms and quell the spread. As you’re likely spending far more time at home than you are used to, you may be feeling restless and probably a bit horny. You may, or may not, be in isolation with your partner(s) or fuck friends. If you happen to be alone, like me, you’ve probably felt the urge to let out a few orgasms at this time. I mean it’s a great stress reliever.

If you’re all too familiar with masturbation, that’s great! All the power to you as you know what you like and what gets you off. But if you’re new or just looking for something new, here are a few great tips on finding your next favourite clitoral vibrator.

For most people who have vulvas, stimulating the clitoris is the easiest way to reach orgasm. That little organ above the vaginal opening contains around 8,000 sensory nerve endings thus making it the most sensitive erogenous zone. While lying face up in a relaxed position, the clitoris is easily reached by hand. If you are not accustomed to masturbation via clitoral stimulation, your best tool to start with is your own hand. Gently give your clitoris a rub with tour index and middle finger and you’ll immediately feel a tingling sensation in your groin. Now keep rubbing at a steady pace, you can go faster as you get into your aroused headspace. Eventually, you should reach orgasm. Damn, that was hot!

As everyone’s bodies are different, so are everyone’s responses to their bodies. Only you can tell how sensitive your clitoris is. Before you go shopping for a toy, using your own hand give you a guide on what feels good and doesn’t down there. Maybe you feel that you’re too sensitive in the clitoral area and may not want a toy with too much vibration or perhaps you realize you’re just hungry for more.

When you’ve developed a sense of what your body likes, it is time to hit the Internet for some online shopping! There are plenty of clitoral vibrators to choose with varying speeds and intensities in their vibrations as well as textured heads that the clitoris can respond to.

For some people, like me, it can take some time of manual labor on my clit before I reach orgasm. If you feel you’re in the same boat, you may want to consider a hands free vibrator such as the ones that wrap around your finger like a ring or have a sleeve attachment, these should eliminate the possibility of hand cramping. The Classic Bullet sits comfortably on your index finger with its head right at your fingertip thus allowing it to reach your clitoris with ease. You can use the bullet directly on the skin for powerful all over vibes, or, if your clitoris is indeed very sensitive, move the bullet to the back of the fingers to keep the skin touch, with added vibration

If you prefer something handheld but still ergonomic and comfortable, there are now plenty of softly curved hand-held clitoral vibes on the market that are small and discreet. Curved to make it easy to hold but also fit the contours of the body. My personal go-to toy that I reach for all the time is the Lelo Siri. I’ve had the first version of the Siri for quite a number of years now but the Siri 2 now features 8 vibration modes inspired by music including the option to sync up to your favorite tunes. I love the Siri for a number of reasons, the silicone head is soft and very comfortable on the body, the toy is waterproof making for fun times in the shower and also it’s easy to clean with soap and water. It’s also rechargeable so there’s no need for finding new batteries. It comes with a convenient wall charger and the toy blinks red when it needs to be charged. The intensity of the vibration is gradual, you can hold down the button for the exact intensity you like or slowly dial it up for waves of pleasure. The Siri also features a number of different vibration patterns that can add to the experience. These patterns in the first Siri don’t do much for me; I tend to keep mine at a consistent intense vibration throughout. Though, the music qualities of the new version are very intriguing. I may need an upgrade.

Of course, the most intense hand-held clitoral vibrator out there started as a device meant to alleviate back pain. The Magic Wand features a long handle and a dome-like head for super intense, high powered vibrations for power sluts who just can’t get enough. To the uninformed, it’s a back massager, but those who know are aware that this is a powerful tool that turns you into a quivering wet mess on the bed. The Magic Wand is great to use alone and even better with a partner for hours of tease and release play. This may be intimidating for someone just getting used to vibrator assisted masturbation but for those looking for one helluva good night; well this is a top-selling toy for a reason. If you’re finding that you are having trouble reaching climax during masturbation or sex, the Magic Wand has been recommended by sex therapists to help with that.

There are, without a doubt, far more clitoral vibrators and masturbation aids, like tingling or heating lubricants, out there but that’s another post. This should be enough to get you on your way to discovering the kind of fun you can have on your own. Just remember to start with your own hand and then let your fingers do the talking. Have fun while in self-isolation!

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Written by Samantha Wu
Samantha is a writer and critic, editor and photographer, living and operating in Toronto, Canada. She specializes in the finer things in life – exploring the best in live theatre and music, lifestyle and sexuality, fine dining, and attractions. She sees the world with a discerning eye capturing emotions, observations, and crowd response with keen attention to detail. She engages and involves readers, bringing people into the moment to share the experience. Her works have been widely accepted by large readerships who rely on her opinions to keep them informed. Sam is always on the search for her next adventure

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